Friday, April 29, 2011

Cell Phone Pet Peeves!

This has got to be one of my BIGGEST pet peeves! As nice as someone may be that does not excuse them from ignorance. When you walk into an establishment that involves positive customer service on their part, RETURN THE FUCKING FAVOR! Get off your phone BEFORE walking in and put it on silent. Don't walk in chatting away having someone sit there waiting on you to get done. Better yet why in the HELL would you answer it in mid-conversation. Let it go to voice mail!

Excusing yourself doesn't work either. There is NO excuse. Having your ring tone volume on the highest it will go isn't necessary either. Are ya freakin deaf? Need to make sure you hear it so you can run after it? You miss it so what! Call them back! If it's real important THEY will call back! I now have to try and find some tactic to excuse people away from my office politely until they are done bullshitting on their cell phone.

Now this one is most aggravating. If I do not answer your call or text right away. I AM BUSY! It doesn't matter what I am busy with, that is NOT your business. If I do not want to text or talk I should not  feel obligated to, so that you don't think I am some kind of a-hole. Your insecurities should not be my problem. 9 times out of 10 if you are feeling that you offended me or are bugging me you probably are. LEAVE IT! I will get back to you as soon as I can. I do have a life you know. I am sorry that you are not priority in it. My only priorities right now are my children and my job. By the way have I mentioned that I HATE TO FUCKING TEXTING!!

Driving here is a big one! I wish that UTAH would pass the law like California with a stiff fine if you are pulled over for driving and texting/calling. You drive worse then a 90 year old lady that can't see over the steering wheel!! Do you realize the heavy equpiment, the massive weapon you are rolling around in? This one should be treated just as serious as drinking and driving. There are options to be hands free talking! Let them call you back, let your voicemail pick it up, blue tooth ear piece, run through the speakers in your vehicle. There are more important things happening on the road then to worry about what someone needs to tell you. If it is that important pull off the road for gods sakes.

Friday, April 15, 2011

My top 5 songs

Here are my top 5 favorite songs in life right now. These are not in any particular order either.

This song by Zep is one of the most sexiest songs... This one gets right in my soul! I feel so sexy dancing to this and even sexier in bed! "I've been trying, Lord, let me tell you, Let me tell you I really did the best I could." "I said you had the nerve to tell me you didn't want me no more, yeah"

This song by Aerosmith is a theme song for me in my life." It's amazing, With the blink of an eye, You finally see the light, Oh it's amazing, When the moment arrives, That you know you'll be alright, Oh it's amazing And I'm saying a prayer, For the desperate hearts tonight."

Black Crows she talks to Angels: "..... and the cross is someone she has not met, not yet."......." She paints her eyes as black as night now, Pulls those shades down tight Yes, she gives a smile when the pain comes, The pain gonna make everything alright."

Jane says, Janes Addiction. Another sexy diddy and I love the lyrics. . "Jane says I ain't ever been in love, I don't know what it is she only knows if someone wants her."

Velvet Revolvers Fall to pieces is a very emotional piece to me. "I keep a journal of memories, I'm feeling lonely, I can't breathe, I fall to pieces"

This one by Saliva comes soooooo close! Hard to not just add it on as an extra here. Depending on the day or week or month it could replace one in the 5.

"Would you find it in you heart,  To make this go away,  And let me rest in pieces"


The Lady of white is no fairy tale
She is just the beginning of hell
She will break your heart and make you cheat
Make you think your life is complete
The diamond she holds in her eyes
Eventually become the ones you despise
No matter how hard you try to forget
She is only satisfied with a life of regret
She can appear in so many ways
And leave your mind blank for so many days
Beware of this lady and her trick
For her pleasures are rather sick
She's a genie a bottle of smoke
No laughing matter no joke
She'll make you run make you hide
She will take everything including your pride
She'll make it a challenge, give you a test
And she will smile when you are obsessed
So if you know this GENIE of today
It's your soul for you I pray
By: Joseph E Simonetti

I used the cartoon because the real thing is just way to disturbing for me. Especially when you see someone you love partaking of "Genie". I have lost a couple from this ugly drug and addiction. A very painful way to lose someone when it is self inflicted and they could have saved themselves but lose all desire to do so. Very selfish if you ask me. Being around a loved one that has this is a complicated drama continually walking on egg shells.  The highs and lows, mood swings, paranoia, and lack of interest in life. You want to do all you can to help them but realistically you just end up enabling them. THEY have to want the change for anything to progress towards the healing. 

Good heart ed loving souls consumed in a dark spiral. I hope the ones I have lost out of my life will finally see a light at the end of the tunnel and all the ones that adore them there ready to support and love them. They have so much to offer everyone and we have so much to give them.